To love unconditionally…

“Human beings have a lot to learn with animals”
“I Love animals and I endure people”
I use this phrases often.
Are they 100% true?
They have a high percentage of Truth!
Usually, people use this phrases as a way to show how we Humans don’t know how to Love unconditionally.
Nowadays, we want to be loved by someone that accepts all the bullshit we do, think or say without questioning our Love.
We look for a dog in a person.
For example, we disappear for days or months without saying a word and then come back and expect to have that person thrilled to see us, just like a dog.
A dog’s Love is that kind of Love that accepts you for who you are. The dog sees beyond your behaviour, your actions, your words. He loves the real you, not the one you allow to be alive in you.
We want to be loved unconditionally, however we don’t value people that Love like that. Usually, we accuse them to have low Self-esteem or lack of Self-love. Therefore, we are not willing to be that kind of person.
Who says that you lack Self-love or have low Self-esteem just because you Love unconditionally?
How did this idea got stonger and stronger?
Is it true? Are we not of Value when we Love unconditionally?
Those fortunate people that Love unconditionally have the ability to Connect with you at such profound level that they acknowledge what is motivating your behaviours, actions, words. In other words, they acknowledge everything that is beyond what is shown.
We want to be loved unconditionally but we don’t want to be as vulnerable as those who Love unconditionally. When you Love unconditionally, you see the good and bad in those you Love and you accept them because you Connect with them at an inner child’s level. This way you acknowledge everything that is hurting, conditionning and forcing someone to be who they are at that precise moment.
This is what happens with animals. Animals Connect with us in such a profound, healthy and loving way. What a dog tells us is: “I know. You were away for seven hours or two days or six months…” (it doesn’t matter how long) “… and it hurts me. I missed you so much and felt abandoned and forgotten, but I Love you still. And now that you’re here with me I want to kiss you and to hug you and play with you and spend every second of the day with you.”
And yes, I believe we need to learn how to Connect in this beautiful way.
I believe we need to learn how to Love and protect in this honest and unconditional way.
However, it is fundamental to first Connect with ourselves, Connect with that little girl or boy that hides inside each and everyone of us claming for Love, attention and protection.
First, we need to acknowledge that little child inside and focus our Energy into understanding her or his needs and fears.
Second, we need to give that little child all the Love we can get to make he or she safe and loved.
Third, we may redirect that Energy to acknowledge someone else’s inner child and their needs and fears.
This way, we will understand that our inner needs and fears are everyone else’s needs and fears.
Thus, it will be easier to acknowledge what is beyond someone else’s behaviour, actions and words.
This way you will unfold unconditional Love inside you and share it with the world.